They are really not for me I like the big O and i know many of you do as well of course Everyone gets off to slightly different things, and there are more fetishes than can be counted.
You can have orgasms without sex, and there are plenty of weird things that cause orgasms when it comes to toys or kinky play. However, did you know you can have an orgasm without any sexual reason whatsoever? Spontaneous orgasms can be caused by medication, nerve issues, brain disorders, or by your body just getting confused as to what its experiencing. You may even be able to get off just from thinking about it hard enough.It probably goes without saying that not everyone can experience spontaneous orgasms, but a surprising number of people, especially women, can and do.
Whether it's because of external or internal circumstances, spontaneous orgasms can be enjoyable, but it can also be a serious issue. For many people, these types of orgasms can be a pain rather than a pleasure. We've all heard of "wet dreams" before, and the idea that you can have an orgasm in your sleep. For men, this is a particularly sticky situation and can mean extra quarters spent on laundry. However, some scientists say that nocturnal emissions don't always come from sex dreams and fantasies, and may not actually be linked to sex at all!
During REM sleep, your body increases blood flow to your genital area, which can cause swelling in the penis or clitoris. Your brain can sometimes notice that those tissues are swollen and have more blood flowing there, and it senses that as sexual arousal. Even if you're not dreaming about sex, just being in REM sleep is enough for your body to react with sexual pleasure. Enough of this can result in a spontaneous orgasm while you sleep! certain sounds, sensations, or touches can cause low-grade euphoria even if they're not overtly sexual. In some cases it can even cause orgasms. These sensations may include whispering, crickets, tapping, or the mention of certain words and concepts. The most well known part however, has to do with stimulation of the head. Thats another story,
Mistress K: An orgasm a day keeps the misery’s at bay so does a good slap on the backside.