No way Josie I give up New Years resolutions many years ago, when you are perfect and living a perfect life (for me) there is nothing to give up. I will look forward too listening to your resolutions see if i can break them for you, I know I can and will.
There are no real set rules as to what a Dominatrix does in her line of work, she invents her scenes to match what the client would like. One thing many Pro-Dommes agree on is that anything involving sexual contact is a big no. Not everyone in the industry has that mindset, so if you’re a subby looking for services – it’s best to check what the individual professionals offer, you’ll find it on their websites! As for the rest of you, don’t be so quick to jump to conclusions. The next Dominatrix you meet might not ever have done anything more elaborate than a makeover on a man.
What a Dominatrix uses as a motivator to get the sub to do their best depends on the individual and this is where the fetish side comes in. Some submissives are masochists, meaning they enjoy pain and thus spanking with a paddle could be deemed a worthy reward for a kitchen well cleaned. Others love feet, so they may be invited to put Mistress’ shoes on and polish them as a reward for a job well done. For every submissive, there is a reward to be earned for good work but often you’ll find that scenes revolve around just how bad a job the sub does. That means plenty of correction (spanking with a cane, being made to work in heavy chains etc) and telling off. Some subs are bad at tasks because they enjoy the humiliation, others because they like to be physically punished. Many are just genuinely crap at what they’re being asked to do. No New Years Resolutions here, they love it