The mere mention of the word fantasy arouses thoughts of threesomes, buxom blondes, and role-playing. But fetish? That just freaks people out.
The reality A fetish is just a specific type of fantasy and one that more people have than you probably realise. Having a proclivity for something in a sexual way especially something not inherently sexual. Examples, latex, rubber, spanking, specific smell/odour, dangerous situations, etc. A fetish can often heighten sexual satisfaction or even become obsessive and needed to reach sexual satisfaction. A good fetish is like a good woman once you find one, you will be satisfied or quickly tire of it/her.
SHOE FETISH One in five women are more excited by a new pair of shoes than their sexual partners but stilettos as a source of sexual arousal? That’s a mostly male domain. There’s so much eroticised imagery around high heeled shoes. They have become a symbol of feminine power and aggressiveness of men’s craving for female dominance. In some cases, though, a shoe fetish may actually indicate a desire to avoid real sexual interaction. It’s a way of indirectly fantasising about a woman. That might be safer and easier than, say, masturbating with the shoe.
It is only a fetish if all of the following apply
It is sexual in nature. Having an interest in something because it is pretty or beautiful or is pleasant to the five senses does not automatically make it sexual. It is only sexual if it causes sexual thoughts and physical arousal.
It is the ONLY thing that can turn you on. If you are turned on by other things as well then it is an interest, NOT a fetish. An object thought to have magical, especially magically sexual, powers
A sexual fixation or obsession with a usually non sexual object. example socks, horses, monkeys, pain, bondage “Holy shit those socks really get me turned on because of this sock fetish of mine.” Rubs socks on body
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