Mistress-K

MISTRESS K
HUDDERSFIELD DOMINATRIX

BDSM What is that about Tell me please.

There are a vast number of reasons why someone might be into BDSM. Someone might be attracted to it for one reason, or many reasons.

BDSM is a beautiful way to give your partner or to experience all kinds of wonderful feelings, to communicate and get to know each other even more intimately, to play out your hottest fantasies and forget about shame. It brings many people happiness.

Some people are just wired that way.  Others develop interests starting in childhood the evolve into BDSM.  It would be like asking why some people are drawn to Hockey while others prefer tennis perhaps it is the balls.

A big reason why a lot of people like BDSM is because it's a way to experiment with control. For a submissive, having control over your life or your body taken away can be very exciting. You don't know what's about to be done to you and you don't have any way to stop it. That uncertainty and fear that comes from giving up control is a very powerful feeling. In a way it's similar to the appeal of horror movies. People watch horror movies because, on some level, being scared is fun.

a lot of sub missives also find that surrendering control to another person is a very freeing xperience.

| Conversely, a lot of sub missives also find that surrendering control to another person is a very freeing experience. What I mean is, freedom and responsibility are two sides of the same coin. But while freedom feels good, responsibility is often stressful and taxing. By giving up freedom, a submissive may feel freed from responsibility and therefore freed from the stress that comes with it, if only for a moment. So long as they are being controlled, they no longer have to worry about paying the bills or keeping up with the Joneses or whatever. Suddenly that all becomes someone else's concern, and that makes them feel better. (makes sense).

  Control can also be a big factor for dominant people, but in the opposite direction. Being given control over another person's life or body can feel very empowering. The knowledge that you now have power over someone else, and they will not only willingly but gladly submit to your will, can be very exciting.

  Another common theme in __BDSM__ is trust. In many ways all __BDSM__ is an exercise in supreme trust. The submissive is trusting the dominant to go only so far and no further, and to protect the submissive from undue harm. For a submissive, being able to trust someone so deeply that you are willing to literally put your life in their hands is very romantic. And for a dominant, having someone in your life who is willing to give you that kind of trust can be profoundly moving. Trust and romance have always been deeply intertwined and in that respect BDSM is no different from marriage.

  __Fantasy__ is another big element of __BDSM.__ For instance, one of the most common themes in __BDSM__ is the Damsel In Distress. A lot of people consider this an exciting __fantasy__ because it includes a lot of appealing factors. There's the actual bondage of course, but there's also the danger and the fear aspect, which I mentioned earlier. So a couple might act out a DiD scene with the submissive playing the damsel. But more than anything else, the simple act of playing out a fantasy is very appealing. By acting out a __fantasy__ you get to be someone else, and anyone who's ever done any stage acting can tell you how fun that can be. Fantasy and role play are probably the most common forms of __BDSM__ out there, because it has such an obvious appeal. Even people who are horrified by bondage and S&M can usually see the appeal of role play in the bedroom. Why else do you think lingerie stores sell sexy costumes? I love Role Play.

  So that's the bondage and the domination aspects explained as well as I'm able to explain it. The remaining aspect of __BDSM__ the enjoyment of pain commonly referred to as S&M, has much the same appeal. It plays into both the control and the __fantasy__ aspects of __BDSM.__ Often a __BDSM__ scene will involve the submissive being punished for some reason or other and it may also involve a __fantasy__ to justify it. So for instance, you'll often see fantasies like patient and naughty nurse  where the dominant plays a Nurse who has to physically discipline a misbehaving patient . There are more variations of course, but you get the point.

  Mistress Kristina - Huddersfield

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I am Mistress Kristina a professional Dominatrix based in Huddersfield, I am passionate powerful, driven and demanding all of the time. I offer sessions in a converted domestic environment where your safety is my priority and your boundaries are respected So Welcome to my world where you will be under the control of a strict and manipulative Mistress where your fantasies can become reality.

Mistress Kristina – Independent Mistress in Huddersfield

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